Published Articles


  • The Mockingbird and Me

    THE MANTLEPIECE

    During Covid, although I was a woman in my 50s, I regressed to my 20s in search of the spiritual ecstasy from that time in my life. A pandemic journey from isolation to community.

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  • How to Sort Out Actual Jerks from those Doing Their Jobs

    QUARTZ

    When a worker's behavior is annoying, the framework of role-to-role relationships can help us make sense of our reactions so.

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  • Changing campus protests from disruptions to learning opportunities

    INSIDER HIGHER ED

    When college protests become campus wars, everyone misses out on learning how to be an effective activist. Richard Nodell and I share what to do instead.

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  • What to Do When the Vitriol Comes for You

    BREVITY

    With so much online vitriol being slung around, writers and leaders alike need to develop an anti-hate protocol.

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  • The Heart Fills In

    IN SHORT A Journal of Flash Nonfiction: Vol. I (Literary)

    A micro essay on love in a time of personal crisis.

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  • The Power of the Cookie

    HUMANS OF THE WORLD (Literary)

    A coffee date with a yoga teacher teaches me about the limits of inspiration.

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  • My date asked me to post his bail and get him out of jail

    BUSINESS INSIDER

    I thought it was a third date. It became a Lifetime movie.

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  • The Excesses of Compassion: A Fallen Guru Reading List

    LONGREADS

    If you like stories about spiritual teachers and how it all goes wrong, you'll love this essay followed by a varied reading list of articles.

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  • Ace Your Next Interview for a Management Position

    THE MUSE

    Even if your prospective employers don’t ask every one of these, preparing to answer them will help you gain clarity.

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  • How to Join a 'Cult,' Safely

    SHONDALAND

    With all the abusive leaders out there, how do you know which exercise fad, spiritual practice or personal growth community to trust?

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  • Healing Trauma Through Drama

    YES! MAGAZINE

    You've probably heard that unhealed trauma creates drama. But did you know that drama can heal trauma?

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  • Life In an Ashram While Being Celibate Made Me More Lonely

    INSIDER

    When we suppress our humanity, we cut ourselves off from connection.

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  • Four Types of Influence to Use at Work

    THE MUSE

    Four types of influence to help you increase your leadership at home and work.

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  • A Man Stole My Ideas. I Could Have Handled it Better.

    HUFFPOST PERSONAL

    I teach women to stand up for themselves. But when it came to defending my IP, it was a different story.

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  • Set Your Season Right. Do the Holiday Huddle

    INSIDER

    Want to avoid a huge holiday hangover? Do the Holiday Huddle with you partner or family so you get what.

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  • How to Make the Right Hire

    THE MUSE

    By following these 15 tips, you’ll conduct a smooth and professional interview—and increase your chances of making and retaining the.

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  • Thanks for the Hint, Instagram

    LITTLE OLD LADY COMEDY

    If you're a woman on Instagram over 40, this comedic send up is for you.

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  • Five Potentially Hazardous New Age Myths

    ELEPHANT JOURNAL

    Are you using spirituality as a defense?

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  • Conquering the Evil Queen

    "INNER ACTIONS" ON FEMINIST.COM

    How I stopped hating myself.

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  • Watching ‘The Vow’ Is Giving Me Flashbacks To My Time Living With A Charismatic Guru

    HUFFPOST PERSONAL

    Was my spiritual community a cult? What is the role of being one of the lucky ones?

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  • "Friends" on the Path to Enlightenment

    BEST SELF MAGAZINE

    I turned 50 when "Friends" turned 25. The first time I watched was in an ashram basement. Let's just say.

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  • How Online Shaming Gives us the Illusion of Control

    GREATIST

    Are the online wars a distraction from what's really going on?

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  • In the Midst of a Break-up: A Tale of Letting Go

    ELEPHANT JOURNAL

    How I managed to let go of the guy who was married to his job.

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  • Growth: book review

    RAIN TAXI

    A review of Karen DeBonis' debut memoir Growth: A Mother, Her Son, and the Brain Tumor They Survived, in which she draws upon the various meanings of the word "growth."